So a lot has been going on in recent times. Crystal and I parted ways. I am in a mad rush to pay my child support. I am looking for a car… so many things…
First, Crystal and I. Although I do not like talking about issues too private, especially if there is another person, this one will be brief and won’t divulge too many details. Basically we mutually agreed to end the relationship. Her and I still remain in contact and I hope we can continue to be friends. She has to be one of the sweetest, most caring persons I have ever met. I can find no fault in her… we just are looking for different things.
Secondly, and probably most importantly I have to pay my back child support in a hurry. My son's mother called me a few days ago telling me that she got a letter in the mail that she has to sign and return. The state of Kentucky is going after me for my back child support. I think they are doing this to most every person who owes money. I find no fault in that, I think we all should do our part to make sure our children are well taken care of and that we pay our child support on time. A couple months back I wrote a blog post that has since been deleted, but it gave some insight into why I was behind.. basically I had to find another job paying some 20k less per year… you do the math. Anyhow, times are much better now and once I got a few things squared away I was going to get caught up. This is just extra motivation. So, I owe about $2400 (stemming from not fully paying my child support during a course of a year). I should be able to pay this back completely at the end of the month, if not, then halfway through June. This works out perfectly as I will be receiving a letter from the child support office around that time informing me of their intentions to garnish my wages. The last thing I want is them garnishing my wages… so problem averted.
The one issue with getting caught up on child support is it puts a dent into my plans to get a car right away. Without the generosity of Crystal letting me use her car I need to now find a car. Once the child support is caught up, I should be able to get a new car come the first couple weeks of July, or sooner. So, I have been without a vehicle for over a year and I have had no real setbacks… but I have decided it is time to get one. I will rarely use it, but I do miss being able to go see my best friend, and attend events. My brother has moved quite close to me and I would love to have the opportunity to go see my niece. And… now that I am single, I will need a way to go to the lake on the weekends. That right there is reason enough to get a car. I will still use the bus every opportunity that I can, but unfortunately the bus does not go to Nolin Lake… haha
I promise to start updating this more. I have just been so busy with things.. I have some interesting things to talk about!
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